Saturday, 25 December 2010

The 25th and A toast to the nature.....

Its been really long since the time I publically wrote something last.... now that most of you know how I cry and make huge deal about turning one more year old on my birthdays.. or how I crave for doing something really crazy and make it special for myself... this year, while I took my birthday reminder off facebook and went AWOL, I wanted to run away from regular cakes and obligatory gifts (no offense to anyone, I do love everything that you guys gave me)..

Close to nature.. Close to randomness and close to being wild and exploring myself... too much to ask for?

Yes, I have been told, warned, teased and screamed manier times for having these huge self expectations.. Suck it losers, I seldom heard it... but I love you all, you know that... :P

it all started when mum showed me 'jumpin heights' write up in newspaper... then googling, finding, startletting, tagging and determining to go became so profound, even the 'unemployed and broke' status dint hampered it... the gang was a bunch of strangers.. a couple of my friends, friends of them and friends of them... but not for even one minute since we all met at Delhi station, we felt unknown.. Call it destiny, call it awesome antennas, we all were connected very well... I don’t really know whom to thank.. Ryz, for tolerating all my nakhras.. prachi, for giving it a blind leap on my faith... uno, for getting everyone together... rahul, for being so sweet (I just can not find a better word for you), tanay, man you are our savior... or jess, for being such a sweet jerk he is...

A few of the highlights... (Just to churn that burning heart in you sweeties..)

An empty creepy shuttle ride from nizamuddin to New Delhi.. And the best announcement I have ever heard on station... "main nizamuddin bol raha hu?!!" :O...

a pick up from station next day early morning and rendezvous with new friends... hot parantha breakfast to be followed at a roadside dhaba...

amazing heavenly beautiful pampering clean soft white Swiss tents at Jim Corbett... *still drools over it*

16 and half tigers we saw at Jim Corbett.. ;) beautiful serene forest that one green patch is... open top jeep, deer, birds and what not.. (for some jerks among you lot, I saw a lizard.. jungly and dint get scared.. bwahahaha..:P yeah it was like 10 ft away from me... :D)

the pool table.... 4 hours... me n rahul one team... rest everyone tried different combinations... we just let them win the game... but the first and last game belonged to our 'winning combination' ;) so much of competition, it was decides whoever loses the first game in the morning, have to take a dip in chilled swimming pool... alas... we left early morning next day and ryz, tanay, prachi and uno were saved... :)

bon fire in the night and one tully uncle almost made it to each of our tents... fortunately supervised and guided by his cute little son.. :P

next day ride to rishikesh, without tanay... yeah being MT almost sucks, had it not been for the lucrative luxury after first appraisal... :P ... super chilled weather and an amazing restaurant with 'noonveg','snecks' and 'ting tong' :P

'rishikesh main enter hoke, degree college k yaha ke peepal ke ped k niche' was the landmark where our pick-up guy was suppose to meet us... the way to the camp went through Rajaji National Park where in elephants had gone crazy and playing footsie with vehicles... our lakhan bhaiyya (the driver) almost made the pick up guy cry in guilt for agreeing to pick us up.. he must have had thought of calling one of mad elephant to serve mr.lakhan... 'tum to local ho, hathi pehchanega tumko.. bachhe (?) hai gaadi main, kaha bhagenge hum....' , ' kya ped patte dekh ke kilometers bata rehe ho..?' .... AKA Lakhan to the poor pick up guy...

the camp, just on the river front and carved outta mountains from all ends possible... BEAUTIFUL... no geyser, no heater... badminton with prachi and chidiya was superfun... *prachi freezes to death in the night*

picking up lost jason from laksham jhula was one thing I just don’t want to forget... poor guy travelled all way from Mumbai-Delhi-bad mishap in Delhi metro-haridwar-rishikesh... be it clicking snaps on disserted and windy, beautiful laksham jhula with uno or watching him smiling funnily after few firangs, watching jess jump outta auto and giving bear hug to uno, whom he had never met before, or just meeting him after 7 months was priceless...

dinner and fruit salad at midnight on jess's birthday... night went spectacular with a lot of catching up while walking on wet grass... and with the help of some dry grass..

early morning strode to the river to join the gang playing with couple of cute dogs... the great and fortunately 'missed by others' fall in the river and the poor camera gave up... :(

Attack to 'jumpin heights' office... and great welcome by Dev and staff... we ATTACKED it... truly...

Bungee.... ryz and uno, you guys are my heroes... I simply adore the way you guys bungeed.... for me, yes I chickened out when I reached the edge... the gravity pulling me towards her, the green water on the earth winking at me.. the rocks looked steady and firm, not scary surprisingly... and I said 'I can’t...' the fear was not what if the rope loosens.. but the fear was to jump from 83mtrs with all the willingness.. wind unfurls your hair... the height blackens your vision.. those two firang bungee masters flirts with you, only to make your comfy and confy... you forget how you had planned to jump, or how you wanted to scream... prachi shouts from behind.. 'Ganpati Bappa Morya' and my former NIM instructor who is a part of crew here, says you can do it... with just one thing in mind, whatever happens, don’t close your eyes... and with that thought... 3...2...1.. bungyyyy... you lean forward and zooooooooooooooooooooooommmmmmmmmmmmmm.............. one word *KICKASS*.... and trust me, one jump isn’t enough....

it was followed by the funniest flying fox vid... 1kms... horizontal to ground... 160km/h.... zzzzzzzzzooooooppppp.......

the aarti at the ganga riverbank.... DIVINE.... overwhelmed by the sacred chants.. soothing ganga... the holiness in the air... purity of soul... made me forget the desire to excel, achieve, win, show, want.... the experience is not very hard to share, coz I exactly knew what and how the feeling was... but may be its just to personal or customized communication between me, the ganga and that holiness... we spoke.. spoke a lot... like meeting best friends from past....no wonder, why one dip in ganga washes away physical sins... the aarti at ghat cleanses the mind.... *spiritual party in my head*

and then...... we ran.... we ran like goons on lakshman jhoola.... ran... in between tourist, sadhus... indians, firangs, vehicles, dogs.... ran like there was a tiger behind our backs....

and then... the day came... when we all were playing bluff in the room... midnight... and for 2 mins, after I prayed... I just witnessed the peace and cooling sensation in my brain... no phonecalls... no waiting on line 2..3...4.... no random.. thank you... and waaaa :'( m 25 and old.... but just a boost, ***** u rocked ur 25th.... although, noone remembered for 2 mins... and remembered only when jess hugged to wish me... then prachi and then rahul and uno... jackass ryz dint... but I knew why was he saving up.. so forgiven... in the end, I wasn’t scared or sad or crying on turning 25.... just super contended for accepting the aging gracefully... (as said by riddhi...)

rafting in the morning... prachi went street hopping, as she is hydrophobic... I m still not convinced why rest of them came... the water was ice cold... 3 degrees... 26kms... amazing currents and unexpected falls... the 'winning combination' coordination... and funny raft men... swimming, jumping, rafting, diving, posing for photos... man... we were on roll.... I swam till all my muscles were stiff and blood was leaving its liquid form...

coming back was ultimate 'crème de la cream' fun too.... but that’s all 'oh so secret' ;) waving bye to everyone looks so freaking impossible...

me n prachi beat jess a lot in the train back home... train was 8 hours late... thanks to gurjars of rajasthan... both of them, buggers, dint leave chance to tease me to death... but guys, I haven’t told you half of the things yet... ;) *keep guessing*

the trip was awesome... something I was dreaming to go about for years... I absolute love everyone who was part of the journey.... I thought I could steal few moments to contemplate my life so far... but having you all around, just made me realize I have lived a good life so far and found the best people on my each milestone... I wanted to organize the chaos in my mind... I agree, it still gives me trouble, it’s still very demanding... but I love making it a part of me...

'I can not be me without this chaotic mind....'

\m/

so....

as always.... everything I write comes with a....

vote of thanks....

Mom & Dad... for letting me choose my way which is always a highway... and also for letting me inherit your rock solid heart.... :)

Prachi.... just for believing so much in me.... noone would have.... Thank you...!!!

Ryz... for tolerating all my nakhras.... it was royally unintentional....

Jess... for reminding me 'I smile, coz you smile..'

Uno... for keeping the best smile on throughout the journey.... and to make the journey happen in real sense...

Rahul.... for your great presence... the moolah control and for making us win the pool game... ;)

Tanay.... who does that.... just for one day known strangers... really???

Lakhan 'BHAIYYA'.... for the entertainment you provided as freebie... and saving us from mad elepthat riot....

Ritesh.... *bows* *bows* *bows* Thank you...!!!!

Swapna... I just can’t begin to tell you, how much I scared of you, care for you, think highly of you, love you... you are just perfect in all sense... an amazing friend and absolute awesome support...

Jojo... for just being so supportive and cool about every weird idea I throw upon you...

Shrek, Chiii, Rudzo, Asmi…. Nothing I write can be complete without your name…

For everyone who remembered and wished me…. I loved every single message beep and phone ring that day… I will treat your very royally whole this year…. :D

*a toast to the nature and a promise of re-visit*

Sunday, 25 July 2010

When I went to Dosa Land...

Why Chennai??

coz Chetan Bhagat inspired me.. Mumbai/Delhi, Ahmedabad, Chennai and now Mumbai...
coz Karan Bajaj inspired me.... to take risks... only to find yourself in the course...
coz parents are cool enough to let me loose...
coz i was bored and wanted make friends in possibly every city of India...
and not to mention,
the internship profile looked coolest... who wants retail when you get brand management summers in FMCG????

i dunt really know... may be just to check if all risks are worth enough...


Work life in Chennai
the best maintained employee relationship.... which company takes interns this seriously... to let their project come in reality.... give them mobile sims... feed them lunch everyday.... unlimited cups of awesomely aromatic coffee and tea and snack every evening... encourage to perform better...
there have been times when i sit and did nothing, but that killed me... i was so full of energy, i just wanted to work....
not to forget, I was happy working on weekends too....
:D
though the first week sucked big time... riding with sales executives who dunno what you are talking... meeting retailers who thinks you are an alien coz you worn ankle-length formals... the sun-burnt as if he is angry for having to rise everyday...

Finding Stay in Chennai
ehh... you really need to be a rocket scientist to get a decent place with good food, ok locality, fine crowd and close to your workplace... thats never gonna happen, the combination is crucial.. you gotto compromise somewhere, specially when your stay wont stretch beyond 2 months...
I got one with electricity fluctuations and servings of rice 3 times a day... lil away from office... but thankfully no dirty gowns (i saw girls wearing them everywhere but here) and the only place you were allowed to wear shorts... :P

Finding friends in Chennai
call all your friends first and ask them for their friends who stay in chennai... Shiv was the first friend i made through shikhar.... My fellow workmates were vultures.. never felt need of finishing food in 2 mins sharp before... my hostel mates Shalini and Ruchi were like angels to save me from hostel food... making Friends, Friend's Friends and their Friends was all I initially had gone to chennai... and i did good i feel... :)

highlight of internship
Chennai - Mumbai - Pune - Delhi - Chennai... freak journey... everywhere by train...
almost 80 hours spent traveling... alone... in AC.... one of the best times of my life.... sometimes read books, sometimes just sat of pavement and watched running farms and darkening clouds... sometimes spoke to fellow travelers.. sometimes just spoke to myself...
work was being done simultaneously... but that dint put limit to fun... Colaba with Rudzo, Bandstand with Jess and Arnaz... Awesome ride from BMC traffic controllers, never-ending conversation with swapna, Man U cafe with jojo, continuation of lost conversation with sumit, Red Fort, Jama Masjid, Akshardham temple with ruku and amit... meeting Suku and Gary.. trip to gurgaon...

Final presentation
couldnt have been better.... mutual likeness...
:)

Journey back to mumbai
Ticket dint get confirmed... book flight at midnight... next day morning 9, m back in Mumbai... hee hee... the internship was over... on a happy note... :)

but adventure is still not over... :)

Chennai Insights
- Its more of rice land than idli dosa land...
- people are most modest here, but they have saree and jewellery shops of 5 floors...
- the new chennai is full of IT and old chennai has rest...
- the tamilnadu film industry produces 10 new films every week with the most funniest captions in the world (e.g - if you take out L of Lover its all Over... :D)
- autowallas are not hard to deal with.... say amount you are ready to pay and walk away... they bargain... :D
- no wonder bharatnatyam is so famous... of you dunt understand their language, focus on their hand gestures... (wont tease ruku for her state of life hand gestures.. :D)
- dosa is costlier than 1 ltr. water and half kg. rice
- if you have leftovers, burn a bucket full of sambhar
- lizards are everywhere



Vote of thanks who made my stay possible...


Parents - for believing that i wont quit n come back...
RCM 5 - for well known reasons...
Shikhar - for having a friend in chennai...
Shiv - for picking me up from station, burning petrol, tolerating my tantrums, finding hostels, for taking me at Zaras...
Pao - for coming all was down to chennai only to meet moi... you are my hero...
Ryz - for meeting... Finally...!!!!!!!!!!!!
Bharati - for proving my theory of pals of same sun sign...
Diwakar - for making me a vulture... :P
Richa and Kripa - for your encouragement...
Jagdeesh - for giving me stipend on time...
Shalini - for lending me your emergency light and taking me to Murugan Idli Store...
Ruchi - for being my dinner partner...
Rakesh - for taking me to the saree shop and the football yanks...
Jo - for booking my window seat in one min...
to everyone who filled my survey sheets...
Swapna, Jess, Riddhi, Jojo - coz i cant get away without mentioning your name...
and the most important,
thanks FB for helping me pull this through.... :)

and,

the hostel landlady, the tamil autowalas, tamil film industry, all retailers in chennai, the dosa corner owner, grace mart and more, pizza hut @ kodambakkam, every hotel on cathedral road, marina beach, bessant nagar beach, tiruvanmyur beach, radio mirchi event, hot breads (special mention), HDFC ATMs, Mocha...

---- for making my stay awesome in chennai...

As i said, Risks are always worthy if taken as experience... :)

Wednesday, 24 March 2010

Focusing....

'Focus' pretty small word, in alphabets and also in the nature... but does wonders...

Focus on a dancer, highlights her emotions and partially hides the background...

Focus on studies, can earn you a great bicycle or the dress you always wanted to own...

Focus on the small detailing, can promote you or give you a well deserved pay raise...

Focus on the aim, can win you CS or the champion of a sort...

Focus on nature, can free you from all stress you have...

Focus on friends, can earn you good companions for life...

Focus on lenses, can give you an award winning photograph...

Focus on people, can get you back to life...

Focus on models, can give you a great shape...

Focus on what you think is right, can just dilute the effect of what went wrong....

(the post is dedicated to some of my batchmates, from whom i have learned what i dunt wanna be.. cheerio...)

Wednesday, 6 January 2010

From 21 Kachnar....

Kachnar, Room No. 21...

The white door welcome.. A spicy potpurri aroma... The cool breeze... and thundering music..

The rainbow mat.. The green bed.. The yellow curtain.. and the purple pillow..

A thermocol wall... The wheel of colors.. peeping smiles.. and the climbing shots...

The mermaid-shark tale.. The green abstract... triangular bangles... and a cute mirroring art...

The study table full of fictions... the scrabble cards.. The laptoport... a lot of jargon.. and not to forget the cute Ganesha idol smiling in corner...

The closet bearing a feminist attitude.. The backpack making traveler's sound.. and the guitar awaiting to start strumming...

A wooden chair with a pad... A cute ducky and red heart... The cool mentos jar.. and pink bottle with silver eye...

The chocolately fan.. The half done ceiling... The green bulb.. and white tubelite..

The yellow bag.. A ManU key.. The saint jhola... and Chelsea spree...

The french window.. The tree branch outside... The fascinating boards on grills.. and gushing noises at midnight...


The room filled with laughter and fun..

The room that holds tight when you are in pain..

The room that witnessed a treat..

The room that stayed awake all night..

The room that played a quilt..

The room that said "You will be alright!!"

The room stayed put when you studied..

The room looked bright under sun and moon lite...

The room will be missed.. the aura would be left behind...
till it rains, the sun shines and moon smiles...
:)